in Therapy, Society, and Life
Edited by Brenda Berger, Stephanie Newman
Routledge – 2012 – 218 pages
Sometimes referred to as "the last taboo," money has remained something of a secret within psychoanalysis. Ironically, while it is an ingredient in almost every encounter between analyst and patient, the analyst's personal feelings about money are rarely discussed openly or in any great depth. So what is it about money that relegates it to the background, both on the couch and off? In Money Talks, Brenda Berger, Stephanie Newman, and their excellent cast of contributors address this and other questions surrounding the tender topic of money, how we talk about it, and how it talks to us. Its multiple meanings are explored in the contexts of patients and analysts and the ways in which they relate, in the training and practice of the analysts themselves, as well as the psychological and cultural consequences of having too much or too little in both flush and tight economic times. Throughout, a clinical sensibility is brought to bear on money's softly spoken place in therapy and life. Money Talks paves the way for an open discourse into the psychology of money and its pervasive influence on the psyche of both patient and analyst.
"Money has always been the dirtiest topic in psychoanalysis. It is avoided in scientific papers, clinical case conferences, and analytic seminars. With auspicious timing, this new collection of thoughtful contributions brings the subject into the light of day. The chapter authors examine every possible aspect of the subject: guilt, greed, narcissism, envy, impasse, interminable analyses, and resentment. This book is a must read for both beginning and experienced analysts." - Glen O. Gabbard, author of Love and Hate in the Analytic Setting
"The editors of this original volume have succeeded in presenting an in-depth analysis of a subject they rightly describe as 'taboo' within psychoanalytic literature - namely, money. Brenda Berger and Stephanie Newman have selected a distinguished set of contributors with different theoretical and technical backgrounds, both very experienced and younger therapists, who cover the many open and hidden ways in which conflicts around money color the therapeutic process, influence transference and countertransference, and reflect complex interaction between unconscious fantasy and reality. Both patients and therapists are subjects of economic pressures and realities, and the very therapeutic relationship is framed by the agreed-upon monetary interaction between them. The authors highlight the frequent blind spots that evolve in countertransference exploration under the impact of combined neurotic and realistic anxieties in both participants. In the course of the many approaches reflected across the various chapters, the influence of cultural backgrounds and ideological and clinical orientations can be detected, adding a rich dimension to the exploration of therapeutic situations. And, centrally, basic human conflicts around greed and envy, sadistic control and masochistic self-destructiveness, exploitation and generosity, and the intricate relation between sex, love, dominance, submission, and sacrifice emerge in the context of conflicts around money. It is an exciting, stimulating, thought-provoking, and anxiety-activating volume, warmly recommended to all psychoanalysts and psychotherapists." - Otto F. Kernberg, M.D., Training and Supervising Analyst, Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research
"Money Talks, a remarkably wide-ranging, beautifully selected collection of essays about money, will be of real interest not only to therapists at all levels of experience and theoretical points of view, but also to observers of our contemporary culture outside of the psychotherapy profession. That's because it is written gracefully and is fun to read. The management of money in therapeutic practice is a most complex and challenging problem, evoking as it inevitably does special sensitivities on both sides of the proverbial couch. The essays, contributed by authors from a wide range of perspectives, delve into the multiple ways money plays a role in treatment, marriage, friendship, work, and other relationships, both in and out of the therapist's office. This book is a welcome, much needed resource for therapists as they confront money in their work, including the role of their own anxieties about bringing their personal needs into their professional endeavors. In addition, the book employs a range of approaches - practical, cultural, anthropological, economic - and stimulates throughout, making it easy to recommend to a wide spectrum of practitioners." - Anthony Bass, Ph.D., Editor, Psychoanalytic Dialogues
Berger, Newman, Preface: Money Talks. Jacobs, Money: Some Reflections on its Impact on Psychoanalytic Education and Practice. Hirsch, It Was a Great Month, None of My Patients Left. Glick, The Rich Are Different: Issues of Wealth in Analytic Treatments. Lieberman, Analyzing a "New Superego": Greed and Envy in the Age of Affluence. Blum, To Be Guilty or Entitled? That is the Question: Reflections on Dr. Lieberman's Contribution. Berger, Tight Money and Couples: How it Can Help Even as it Hurts. Newman, Follow the Money: Training and Fees, Fantasy and Reality. Orgel, Money and Meaning: A Senior Psychoanalyst Comments on Drs. Berger and Newman. Dimen, Money, Love, and Hate: Contradiction and Paradox in Psychoanalysis. Meersand, Working with Children, Adolescents, and Young Adults: The Meaning of Money in the Therapeutic Situation. Myers, Show Me the Money: (The "Problem" of) the Therapist's Desire, Subjectivity, and Relationship to the Fee. Shanok, Money and Gender: Financial Facts and Fantasies for Female and Male Therapists. Grech, Dollars and Sense: Cognitive Biases and Personal Investing.
Brenda Berger, Ph.D., is Clinical Assistant Professor of Medical Psychology in Psychiatry at Columbia University and on the faculty at the Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research, where she serves as Senior Associate Director for Psychology and Director of the Psychology Externship training program. The author of the Parent Development Interview as well as several articles, she received a Woodrow Wilson Fellowship and the Lionel Ovesey Award of the Columbia University Center for Psychoanalytic Training and Research for developing a psychodynamic teaching program. Dr. Berger practices in New York City and Larchmont, NY.
Stephanie Newman, Ph.D., is a faculty member of the Institute for Psychoanalytic Education affiliated with the New York University School of Medicine. She has presented numerous times on diverse topics in psychoanalysis at the Scientific Meetings of the American Psychoanalytic Association, as well as the American Psychological Association and APA Division 39 (Psychoanalysis). A regular contributor to the online edition of Psychology Today, she maintains a private psychoanalytic practice in New York City.